09-22-2009, 08:13 PM
My daughter is a "monster". Its because thats who she is. But at the same time, she can be a perfect angel. She has a good and a bad side and feels she should be able to do whatever she wants. If she doesnt get her way, she cries or gets pissed off and throws something. No one taught her that. Been doing that since she was like 6 months old.
I talk to my daughter ALL the time. When she cries, its cuz she didnt get her way or doesnt want to do something she was told to do, not for any other reason. She feels like she should have my attention 24/7 and I have to explain to her constantly that daddy needs to "work" and she can't always have it. Is she trying to hear that? No but its reality and has to accept it one day.
And I still don't agree with this......
I don't know what to tell you about the difference in opinion of the child being a monster the parent is not involved enough, I am not an expert nor do I claim to be. Out of all my friends who have kids, the one's who kids are terror's and bullies etc are the product of the parents who would rather smoke dope, drink, talk on the phone or have baby sitters almost every night of the week. The one's who's parent's stay home with them the majority of the time and are involved in the homework and upbringing of them, have children who are respectful of the rules and polite and very helpful little shit's all the way around.
I have NEVER drank alcohol, done drugs, hardly ever have a babysitter, or spend to much time on my phone and my daughter is STILL a monster. Again, thats just who she is. But yes I am trying to break that habit of hers.
I know guys who've always had their parents support, were involved in their lives constantly, and were spoiled rotten and still ended up in jail/prison for drugs, robbing, murder, etc..... People are going to do what they want regardless and you can't honestly stop them.
I just hope and pray my daughter doesnt make that decision and go down that kinda path.
I talk to my daughter ALL the time. When she cries, its cuz she didnt get her way or doesnt want to do something she was told to do, not for any other reason. She feels like she should have my attention 24/7 and I have to explain to her constantly that daddy needs to "work" and she can't always have it. Is she trying to hear that? No but its reality and has to accept it one day.
And I still don't agree with this......
I don't know what to tell you about the difference in opinion of the child being a monster the parent is not involved enough, I am not an expert nor do I claim to be. Out of all my friends who have kids, the one's who kids are terror's and bullies etc are the product of the parents who would rather smoke dope, drink, talk on the phone or have baby sitters almost every night of the week. The one's who's parent's stay home with them the majority of the time and are involved in the homework and upbringing of them, have children who are respectful of the rules and polite and very helpful little shit's all the way around.
I have NEVER drank alcohol, done drugs, hardly ever have a babysitter, or spend to much time on my phone and my daughter is STILL a monster. Again, thats just who she is. But yes I am trying to break that habit of hers.
I know guys who've always had their parents support, were involved in their lives constantly, and were spoiled rotten and still ended up in jail/prison for drugs, robbing, murder, etc..... People are going to do what they want regardless and you can't honestly stop them.
I just hope and pray my daughter doesnt make that decision and go down that kinda path.