Abortion?

[becky]

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Originally Posted by Del240z I apologize if I came off brash and rude in my initial comment. And I'm not saying, there's some people out there with a little common sense, such as yourself, even if you decide to have an abortion cause you can't afford it. It's just the ones who lack total responsibility and really don't think things through and think it's like a convienience store, where you can fix it all no problem.

so lets say i have sex tonight and birth control fails me... we decide to keep the baby because having an abortion is just oh so horrible.....even though we can barely get by right now. so i got get wic, medicaid, etc because our economy sucks, my bf has been out of work and isn't having much luck finding a job, i got pregnant at a young age and have always worked bs jobs just to get by. we have no family here to help out with watching the baby so we have to pay someone $150 a week because that's the on going rate here.
with baby comes sleepless nights and tons of stress on both parents who didn't really want the baby to begin with, then comes resent and hate towards that child.
what happens if my bf decides he doesn't want t be a daddy and splits, what happens if he leaves me with the responsibility of three children and doesn't help out on any level.
if anything, knowing all the information i just gave it doesn't sound like to me that i'm being the one with little common sense..maybe you are? maybe you think it's just THAT easy to raise a child and when you have a baby everything will work out and everything is great.

all of this could be solved if i go get my tubes tied or he gets sniped...i agree. but we don't have the money to do that and i dont' want to do that....our ways of birth control hasn't failed in the time we've been together.....

also this could all be resolved if we don't have sex. well guess what...F not having sex. for someone to say 'don't have sex if you're not ready for the responsibilities' you sound like an after school program. its so unrealistic to say that. just sayin