Abortion?

[becky]

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Originally Posted by Del240z . Thats what being repsonsible, and a man and an adult are partly about.

i guess, but i feel like you're also being responsible by taking care of something you can't handle.

that's awesome though that you're so down to be a dad and you are responsible enough to handle the baby/babies on an emotional/financial level. i wish my ex husband was more like you, along with everyone else ...geez just imagine how much money our country wouldn't be in debt if more parents stepped up to the plate.

my parents didn't talk to me about sex at all...i went to planned parenthood at 16 to get the pill myself. i told my mom and she wrote me a 3 page letter about what a whore i was. a lot of people i know in high school were having sex. it was not uncommon that i was at 16 when i lost my virginity.

i'm ok with the fact that i say i would have an abortion if i were to get pregnant. others are ok with the fact that they won't. there is really no need to slam people for feeling the way they do...especially when it's not illegal. if it was really killing a baby it wouldn't be legal.

[h2]

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Originally Posted by Del240z As for all the couples or peeps who said "screw that, ill get an abortion cause I cant afford another one "Makes ABSOLUTELY no fuckin sense to me.

Yeah, cause that's real irresponsible.

[Del240z]

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Originally Posted by becky i guess, but i feel like you're also being responsible by taking care of something you can't handle. that's awesome though that you're so down to be a dad and you are responsible enough to handle the baby/babies on an emotional/financial level. i wish my ex husband was more like you, along with everyone else ...geez just imagine how much money our country wouldn't be in debt if more parents stepped up to the plate. my parents didn't talk to me about sex at all...i went to planned parenthood at 16 to get the pill myself. i told my mom and she wrote me a 3 page letter about what a whore i was. a lot of people i know in high school were having sex. it was not uncommon that i was at 16 when i lost my virginity. i'm ok with the fact that i say i would have an abortion if i were to get pregnant. others are ok with the fact that they won't. there is really no need to slam people for feeling the way they do...especially when it's not illegal. if it was really killing a baby it wouldn't be legal.

I apologize if I came off brash and rude in my initial comment. And I'm not saying, there's some people out there with a little common sense, such as yourself, even if you decide to have an abortion cause you can't afford it. It's just the ones who lack total responsibility and really don't think things through and think it's like a convienience store, where you can fix it all no problem.

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Originally Posted by h2 Yeah, cause that's real irresponsible.

Obviously common sense has eluded you in this topic of discussion, or the fact that you choose to see what you want instead of encompassing the full conversation....

[becky]

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Originally Posted by Del240z I apologize if I came off brash and rude in my initial comment. And I'm not saying, there's some people out there with a little common sense, such as yourself, even if you decide to have an abortion cause you can't afford it. It's just the ones who lack total responsibility and really don't think things through and think it's like a convienience store, where you can fix it all no problem.

so lets say i have sex tonight and birth control fails me... we decide to keep the baby because having an abortion is just oh so horrible.....even though we can barely get by right now. so i got get wic, medicaid, etc because our economy sucks, my bf has been out of work and isn't having much luck finding a job, i got pregnant at a young age and have always worked bs jobs just to get by. we have no family here to help out with watching the baby so we have to pay someone $150 a week because that's the on going rate here.
with baby comes sleepless nights and tons of stress on both parents who didn't really want the baby to begin with, then comes resent and hate towards that child.
what happens if my bf decides he doesn't want t be a daddy and splits, what happens if he leaves me with the responsibility of three children and doesn't help out on any level.
if anything, knowing all the information i just gave it doesn't sound like to me that i'm being the one with little common sense..maybe you are? maybe you think it's just THAT easy to raise a child and when you have a baby everything will work out and everything is great.

all of this could be solved if i go get my tubes tied or he gets sniped...i agree. but we don't have the money to do that and i dont' want to do that....our ways of birth control hasn't failed in the time we've been together.....

also this could all be resolved if we don't have sex. well guess what...F not having sex. for someone to say 'don't have sex if you're not ready for the responsibilities' you sound like an after school program. its so unrealistic to say that. just sayin

[h2]

Glad to see the voters turned out and got this one right...

http://firstread.msnbc.msn.com/_news...in-mississippi

“Mississippi voters rejected the so-called ‘personhood’ amendment because they understood it is government gone too far, and would have allowed government to have control over personal decisions that should be left up to a woman, her family, her doctor and her faith….”

[akrenaL]

If you don't want a child yet then have some protection, don't kill the unborn..

[JBONEZ]

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Originally Posted by akrenaL If you don't want a child yet then have some protection, don't kill the unborn..

You can still get prgenant with protection!!!